Well absoloutely! But it's not that these girls are doing it on a conscious level. They are living in pain, and the only way people can see it is by seeing it as a physical change. When the physical begins to show, either by drinking, drugs, anorexia, self-abuse, you can be assured that a gut-wrenching pain has been living inside those girls for a long, long time.
They are existing and coming from a place of fear, limiting beliefs and low self-image. And what do we do, we judge. We judge their behaviour, these girls are on a cycle of abuse. They feel an emptiness inside. They strive to fill that dark hole with something. That something is not love, because they only attract what they believe is true about themselves. There is no logic to anything that is happening in their lives. They cannot step outside and look in without our help.
Let's not judge these girls. Lindsay Lohan is one of them, but there are many like her in Hollywood, and in your school, and in your extended family. They may not know Love. We may not be able to change a girl on the other side of the world, but our thoughts of blame, shame and disgust are not helping them. Only by our loving thoughts will we make differences in their lives. So next time you pick up a magazine and see a picture of one of our girls in pain, withering away.... send them love.
Tell them:
"That which has power over you today (drugs, a relationship etc)......Release it. Care about what happens in your life. You are a beautiful gift. How is it you don't see this? I know what you are capable of. Love, free your yourself, free your heart. The power is within you. God is within you. He made you out of love. He made you perfect, and nothing has or can change that. No matter what you have been told, or what situations you have been in. It no longer matters, it has not changed you, you are glorious. The power is within you. I am here with you, I will not judge, I will love you, I will help you. Your journey has begun. You, and only you can decide the outcome of your life. Take back your power. You are now responsible for your life. The love in me ....I send to you."
Thoughts are powerful, it is how all is created.
Call to action:
Choose one famous person, it may be someone you admire, someone you may not have liked too much, either way just choose one that seems to be struggling at this time, and every time you see her eg. in a magazine,
do not judge, just stop and say "Today I send you love, peace and wellness".
You will begin to find that your attitude towards them will also change, as we are no longer judging by what the pages tell us, we are now here to love. Those feelings will make a difference to a moment in their life, together we can positively surround them in love to fill that void inside of them. It will also make a difference in yours.
Would love to hear who you will choose to love :)
Love to you.
Maria Portas.
