Happy Father's Day to all those wonderful father's out there, you so deserve to be celebrated and loved! If only you knew how much you mean to your children and partners... great men build great families.
So many families getting together today, bonding, loving and yet there are still many of us that days like these eg. Father's Day, Mother's Day, Valentines Day, Christmas, actually point out where we have gone wrong, or what is missing in our lives. These days hurt.
I am a strong, sensitive woman who always sees the positive in everything, so everyday I am blessed with the love that I see around me. So lack is not what I dwell on. But give me one of these special days, and the loneliness begins to rise in my body and my eyes are constantly filled with tears.
These days are beautiful to many, but they are also a reminder of the father that may have died, the father that may have left, the man, your children's father, that you should be celebrating this day with. Not that it should be that man, but it just triggers in you that hey maybe there is something missing in your life.
For me it's that special man, that I would love to celebrate today with. That even though he may not be the father of my children. He would represent that in our family, he would be the one to show my children how men treat their partners/wives/mothers, he would complete our family.
I have a wonderful father and I will see him later today. But as I sit here on my own, (my kids are with their dads), I send you so much love. For I know that behind the smiles, there are many who are holding back tears for what becomes so obvious on days like these.
Breathe!
Maria Portas.
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